We
have all heard the expression To Find Your Other Half, the person who
will complete you. That You’ll fall in love and become as One…
But
where the heck does this idea of being each other halves come from ?
Shouldn’t we focus on becoming complete, and as strong individuals
as we can be, before we decide to share ourselves with someone else ?
Do we need someone else to be our other half ? Our Better half ?
Can’t I be my best whole and then find another whole to shear my
best whole with ?
I
used to think that way, that I need someone else to complete me, to
make me whole, but what I’ve learned over the past few years is
that you should focus on completing yourself as one whole, and as you
own up to this way of thinking, someday, people who are good for you
(and perhaps that special someone) will find you. You should always
remember to focus on someone who wants you whole.
And
the same goes for that someone, you should focus on finding someone
who’s whole, able to be there for someone else and strong enough to
be them selves without the need of anyone else confirming that.
I want to be whole for someone, because I believe that they deserve that, and I hope that someone wants to be just as whole for me.
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