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The good argument (let the cookies fly out of your jars)

It is good to argue sometimes, both in order to clear the air and get into a better place with each-other, but also to know that there is safety- a net that will catch you even if you let those mental frying pans fly. And no- we aren't arguing right now (It may sound corny but I am the happiest I've ever been... so far). But we had, and have had (coming and going) some.. expression.. some more necessary than others. We all have our monsters in the closet.. that eventually will need to come out and throw cookies and tantrums..and as adults, eventually calm down to a more understandable pace- And we both need to be there for one another when the cookies come out.. even if it for a while would make us want to throw our own cookies against theirs. What I have learned- through not only my relationships and dating life- but also through family and friends, is that a relationship can become stronger once the insecurities are let out in to the open (that is if we both agree to sup