There are so many other beautiful, funny and smart girls out there, why would he choose me ?
We all ladies know that feeling, when we are at a party, a workout class at the gym or just walk down the street. We always see that prettier, more fit girl who seems to have it all under control or that smarter girl who has a presence that you feel that you could only dream of having.
You should read my thoughts sometimes when I`m sitting at that yoga class, clumsy and inflexible as something out of a bad cartoon, looking at those perfect girls with there perfect tanned skin and long blond hair..
And another example, a while back, I saw that guys profile picture and there was this girl who had posted like a gazillion hearts ( okey fine maybe not a gazillion.. ) and other comments there.. Well she was pretty.. and seemed perfect, and in that moment I thought, well no matter what he said about me, about him liking me.. I don't `think I stand a chance..
During the past year I've had this conversation with several of my girlfriends, the feeling when the "market" gets bigger and better. We might occasionally feel that we start to lose our chances and that we'll no longer get picked since there`s always someone better right around the corner.
(and yes I realise that the word getting picked and the idea of that just men get to choose is old fashioned, ofcourse we girls get to wonder around too and ofcourse we could also find someone better around the corner, I'm sure the "market" is bigger for us too , even though I honestly think that more often men are more keen to this kind of thinking and behaviour )
But why waist our energy into thinking who's hotter, kinder, sweeter,smarter and more put together than us ? Could we (including myself) just think how lucky the world is to have so many beautiful women who are smart and take care of themselves !
And I bet you, those girls you find so perfect, might just feel the same way about you, we All have our insecurities and we all get reminded of some flaw we have, when we look at others.
We Could, And We Should, instead of looking for things that we lack of, see what we have, what we already are. Beautiful. We Should look within ourselves and see that there are so many things that make us unique. That Makes you You.
And One Other thing; Because Why Wouldn't he ;)
Girl Power !
We all ladies know that feeling, when we are at a party, a workout class at the gym or just walk down the street. We always see that prettier, more fit girl who seems to have it all under control or that smarter girl who has a presence that you feel that you could only dream of having.
You should read my thoughts sometimes when I`m sitting at that yoga class, clumsy and inflexible as something out of a bad cartoon, looking at those perfect girls with there perfect tanned skin and long blond hair..
And another example, a while back, I saw that guys profile picture and there was this girl who had posted like a gazillion hearts ( okey fine maybe not a gazillion.. ) and other comments there.. Well she was pretty.. and seemed perfect, and in that moment I thought, well no matter what he said about me, about him liking me.. I don't `think I stand a chance..
During the past year I've had this conversation with several of my girlfriends, the feeling when the "market" gets bigger and better. We might occasionally feel that we start to lose our chances and that we'll no longer get picked since there`s always someone better right around the corner.
(and yes I realise that the word getting picked and the idea of that just men get to choose is old fashioned, ofcourse we girls get to wonder around too and ofcourse we could also find someone better around the corner, I'm sure the "market" is bigger for us too , even though I honestly think that more often men are more keen to this kind of thinking and behaviour )
But why waist our energy into thinking who's hotter, kinder, sweeter,smarter and more put together than us ? Could we (including myself) just think how lucky the world is to have so many beautiful women who are smart and take care of themselves !
And I bet you, those girls you find so perfect, might just feel the same way about you, we All have our insecurities and we all get reminded of some flaw we have, when we look at others.
We Could, And We Should, instead of looking for things that we lack of, see what we have, what we already are. Beautiful. We Should look within ourselves and see that there are so many things that make us unique. That Makes you You.
And One Other thing; Because Why Wouldn't he ;)
Girl Power !
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