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Choose someone who will love you for all the knots in your hair

What to look for in that person ? That`s a subject I think about about a lot and often mention in someway in many of my posts. In my last post I wrote about how some men talk about women (and with that trying to say what not to look for/settle for), I've also mentioned it in my post honest embrace, with referring to Vanessa Carlton's song Home. I've talked about how I've leaned that you don't need make-up to look pretty, your smile and own inner well-being is all that really should matter, and this is also something that someone should agree with. 

 

So, that said.. (and this might get a little wannabe poetic, and deep...but I don't care....)

 

.. Choose someone who will love you for who you are, who supports you, encourages you and hugs you often. Choose someone you can tell all your troubles too, and even if you didn't,

 

(because sometimes we don't want to share all our thoughts, fears and worries with someone else, we don't want them to have to carry everything)

 

... just knowing that you can gives you a feeling of calm. 

 

Choose someone who will love you know matter what size or shape, as long as your happy, that's all that should matter. Choose someone who will love you, and not look down on you or judge you even if they ever found you crying and eating cookies on the sofa. Choose someone, who even then will hug you and do their best to cheer you up. 

 

Choose someone who wont laugh At you, but With you.  

 

Choose someone who loves and admires you for your strength.

 

Choose someone who will be there if you ever fall. 

 

 Choose someone who hold your hand when your scared. 

 

Choose someone .... who will love you for all the knots in your hair.



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