Over the past years I`ve been thinking a lot about how guys talk about girls and how they talk to them, what they say that they look for in a girl and so on. Some men (and of course women too) can be very superficial and also talk (in my opinion) somewhat degrading about the other gender... I`ve been in a Sauna as the only girl with a bunch of guys, and listening to them talk about us like.. well.. it wasn't nice to hear. To be honest it made me feel a bit sick. How can men, far past puberty, and in an age where you would think that they would start acting and thinking like grown ups, still talk about girl as.. well.. pieces of meat ?
A girl is not just "good boobs and nice ass and long blond hair, or whatever haircolor, or figure you desire " made me feel sick even writing that sentence...
Its not my puzzle to solve, but I hope that they in time, whenever that is, learn to better ways and don't teach that way of talking to there own sons someday. How would they feel if someone someday spoke about their daughter that way ?
But why do they say he things they say ? And besides right in front of us in our own real life, what are men like this doing inside our TV´s ? And why do some girls fall for it ?
The girls should get up their confidence to not fall for these men (and I myself have been there, accepting it, liking the attention and so on). We should know that we are worth so much more, and better. But sometimes, no matter how much your aware of the fact that you deserve someone who talks to you and about you as a person, you still sometimes slip and accept.. look past it, over and over again... But we just have to keep climbing towards what we deep down know that we deserve.
And what about those guys.. ? Don`t they know that a truly confident self- respecting woman will never fall for them, if they keep on acting that way? And Isn't a woman who's confident and self-respecting just as sexy as it can get ? And most importantly don't we all want a partner who's confident enough to not accept this kind of behaviour ?
So.. some men out there (o yes you know if this applies to you) please grow up, and girls.. you deserve better ;)
A girl is not just "good boobs and nice ass and long blond hair, or whatever haircolor, or figure you desire " made me feel sick even writing that sentence...
Its not my puzzle to solve, but I hope that they in time, whenever that is, learn to better ways and don't teach that way of talking to there own sons someday. How would they feel if someone someday spoke about their daughter that way ?
But why do they say he things they say ? And besides right in front of us in our own real life, what are men like this doing inside our TV´s ? And why do some girls fall for it ?
The girls should get up their confidence to not fall for these men (and I myself have been there, accepting it, liking the attention and so on). We should know that we are worth so much more, and better. But sometimes, no matter how much your aware of the fact that you deserve someone who talks to you and about you as a person, you still sometimes slip and accept.. look past it, over and over again... But we just have to keep climbing towards what we deep down know that we deserve.
And what about those guys.. ? Don`t they know that a truly confident self- respecting woman will never fall for them, if they keep on acting that way? And Isn't a woman who's confident and self-respecting just as sexy as it can get ? And most importantly don't we all want a partner who's confident enough to not accept this kind of behaviour ?
So.. some men out there (o yes you know if this applies to you) please grow up, and girls.. you deserve better ;)
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