You need yourself, it is a crisis- you told that to me. That one of the biggest reasons to your misery and even anger is that everything and everyone is pulling you in different directions. You filled your life with things to do- people to see,(feel preassured) but lately you haven´t had time for a connection to that inner "Me".
You find yourself lost in who you want to be.
If you are not sure on what you want- and not dating is where you feel like you need to be. Then it would probably be smartest not to try again with an ex as she approached you while she was going through a hard time. If you feel responsible for her in some way- do not misslead her in any way.
Tell her what you need, that there are simply not enough hours in the week. That you need to focus on you before you go numb (or loose it) maybe she will understand and let go of the frustration she is feeling towards you for not spending enough time with her. This will also show you if her feelings for you are truly there.
I know your'e not in the right place, and I would not want to stand in her shoes- there is nothing good that can come out of this- but it is your path, your frustration.. only you can find a clearing to that.
You need to choose what you want to pursue, let go of things that cause you to feel preassure or anxiety. Holding on or driving yourself over-board is self-harm too.
I could feel your pain from the discussion we had before.
I did not know how bad it was- but now I do.
I do not want to be part of the 20 reasons your head is falling through.
I know I can not give you more hours to a week, but take the time you would have spent on me.
I know it is only a lunchbreak or so- but knowing that it helps you- helps me to let go.
I want your happiness, not misery, thats all.
You need yourself.
Slow down your pace,
And eventually you will fall into place.
You find yourself lost in who you want to be.
If you are not sure on what you want- and not dating is where you feel like you need to be. Then it would probably be smartest not to try again with an ex as she approached you while she was going through a hard time. If you feel responsible for her in some way- do not misslead her in any way.
Tell her what you need, that there are simply not enough hours in the week. That you need to focus on you before you go numb (or loose it) maybe she will understand and let go of the frustration she is feeling towards you for not spending enough time with her. This will also show you if her feelings for you are truly there.
I know your'e not in the right place, and I would not want to stand in her shoes- there is nothing good that can come out of this- but it is your path, your frustration.. only you can find a clearing to that.
You need to choose what you want to pursue, let go of things that cause you to feel preassure or anxiety. Holding on or driving yourself over-board is self-harm too.
I could feel your pain from the discussion we had before.
I did not know how bad it was- but now I do.
I do not want to be part of the 20 reasons your head is falling through.
I know I can not give you more hours to a week, but take the time you would have spent on me.
I know it is only a lunchbreak or so- but knowing that it helps you- helps me to let go.
I want your happiness, not misery, thats all.
You need yourself.
Slow down your pace,
And eventually you will fall into place.
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