Teamwork requires communication, and it starts with understanding ourselves (and how our past pain and anxious traits effects our present communicating ways)
I recently wrote a few posts about life choices we make (and how they should be based on the knowledge of ourselves). I am a wanderer soul too- and I will never deny that from being true.
I also wrote about how (once made the choice to enter a relationship) a personality/lifestyle with wandering needs, or those with regular impulsive unconventional behaviour and anxious choices caused by #adhd, requires strong emotional commitment to their life partner and empathetic communication (including the way we express our needs). By doing this our partner can trust us in our intentions and on our ventures and is not left with the feeling that we walk away from them but that we walk back to our inner selves.
Partners (like I used to be) also need to try to listen and understand, work with their own anxiety.
Team work starts with figuring out ourselves (our traits, needs, reactions, possible projection of past pain and our communication pattern), it is an essential corner stone for building the functioning emotionally secure relationship at the end.
I also wrote about how (once made the choice to enter a relationship) a personality/lifestyle with wandering needs, or those with regular impulsive unconventional behaviour and anxious choices caused by #adhd, requires strong emotional commitment to their life partner and empathetic communication (including the way we express our needs). By doing this our partner can trust us in our intentions and on our ventures and is not left with the feeling that we walk away from them but that we walk back to our inner selves.
Partners (like I used to be) also need to try to listen and understand, work with their own anxiety.
Team work starts with figuring out ourselves (our traits, needs, reactions, possible projection of past pain and our communication pattern), it is an essential corner stone for building the functioning emotionally secure relationship at the end.
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