Who are we making our life choices for ? (about the importance of choosing and being happy with our own path)
You, you should always make your life choices for you, set a standard for your own boots.
If you are choosing a path (like a career, a hobby, living arrangment, lifestyle, entering a relationship, marriage or having children) to prove a point to others, to make them proud, to reach their set goals and standards, to receive appreciation,
you are choosing their path, standards and frame, and the life that comes with it.
You might never really fit in it.
Always feeling unhappy with yourself as there are uneven boots to fill.
You are (maybe for a lifetime) blowing air into the wrong sails.
Working hard to reach a goal that was theirs.
Do not skip your own heartbeat and settle in the frames of others.
By doing that you are putting yourself aside.
Abandoning that inner truly contempt smile.
And make sure that you are truly ready for what you then decide.
Do not create a life you still secretly want to run away from, do not bring others pain.
Live your life honestly, but most importantly in your name.
Make yourself proud.
Proud to be you.
Walk a path that belongs to you.
Do your very best to fit your own boots.
Your own appreciation is really the only one you need,
without it you become an empty shell that is impossible to feed.
A life-time of hollow is not what you need.
Find your inner sense of security.
Appreciate yourself, with honesty.
Find a lifestyle that suits you.
Live a life that feels true.
That you can look back at with a smile, knowing that it was you.
Live your life fully, never set yourself aside, this life is most likely the only one you get...
So how do you choose to use that time ?
Live this life for you, with a big inner smile.
You deserve it,
Remind yourself.
Each and every time.
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